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Consider whether mediation could be a good choice for you

Are There Different Types Of Divorce In Massachusetts?

The ways to get divorced and the experience of going through it have  evolved over time. Nowadays, a stressful trial is not assumed. The  parties are more likely to reach a negotiated agreement, often through  their lawyers, and using alternate dispute resolution methods, known as  ADR. Mediation is a popular process that may help you and your spouse  work through the issues you must resolve in a more positive and less  adversarial way.

What is mediation?

Mediation is a process that is aided and orchestrated by a neutral  professional called a mediator, a person with special training in  communication and conflict resolution. In many divorces, when emotions  are heightened and stakes are high, it can be a relief and a natural  step to shift the burden of sorting everything out to the mediator, who  works with both of you to help reach your own solution to the legal  family issues.

First, the mediator will need to learn the facts about your situation  and family. He or she will help you and your spouse articulate your  goals for each issue and try to find common ground in an effort to find a  resolution which meets both of your needs. The process may still be  difficult, but a skillful mediator can help the participants through  impasses using professional techniques.

Ideally, you and your spouse would each have your own lawyer to guide  you during mediation. Although the lawyers do not traditionally attend  mediation sessions, the lawyers can provide information about the law  that applies and about your rights, as well as legal advice and  guidance, so that you mediate/negotiate from a place of knowledge and  strength.

During a divorce, many issues will need to be resolved, including  alimony, child support and custody, parenting time and property  division. A couple may successfully mediate all of the issues to  agreement or only some of them. If there are outstanding, unresolved  matters, they can still be tried in court before a judge.

Unmarried parents trying to resolve legal issues related to their children may also utilize mediation.

Why try mediation?

Divorcing spouses in mediation often feel that they have secured some  of what they wanted, and even though there were compromises, at least  they had some input and control over the outcome. In contrast, if the  judge in the divorce decided the same issues, even though he or she  would consider relevant evidence, the outcome is out of the control of  the parties and decided by a person whom they have never met.

In mediation, the parties themselves are in the driver’s seat, even  though they may be at odds and experiencing stress, especially when  children are involved. Many find it less stressful and more private than  the courtroom, as well as less expensive and more respectful.

If you are facing the prospect of divorce in Massachusetts, talk to a  lawyer with experience in litigation, traditional negotiation and  alternative methods like mediation and collaboration. Your attorney can  help you sort through the pros and cons of each method in light of your  unique situation to decide which to propose to your spouse.

The attorneys at the office of Linda Sternberg, Esquire of Watertown represent Massachusetts clients in a broad variety of  divorce and family law matters using negotiation, mediation,  collaborative practice and litigation. As both an attorney and a trained  mediator, Linda Sternberg, Esquire acts as legal advisor to a client throughout the mediation process or  as a mediator in cases in which she does not represent either party.

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